Dear Chris,
Thanks for your comments. Countrymech, aka Paul W. Allen, wrote some things that were rude and had a bullying tone. I don't particularly care for either, and am happy to give as good as I get.
Wanting to be a good neighbor does not mean that I wish to be a bad neighbor. A bad neighbor is someone who makes newcomers feel unwelcome, is inhospitable, and makes casual assertions about how tough it is to live in Wyoming that lots more people commit suicide there, thus anyone from anywhere else is unlikely to have the mettle to live there. It seems extraordinary to me that I've found a more pleasant welcome in the contents of the messages of every African that I ever met in Djibouti, Eritrea, Ethiopia, or Somalia who has written to me than I have in this commentary by Mr. Allen. Oh, well.
Asking what the man means by "we" is not promoting an idea of elitism. It is asking, sincerely, what he means. If he were a member of FSW, or an associate of FSW, or had some information about himself on his profile when I wrote to inquire, I would have had a better idea of who he was, and might guess what he meant by "we." (Mr. Allen: I don't have any concern about the $25. I don't mind if you sign up, pay, don't pay, or don't sign up. It is all the same to me.)
It seems absurd that my comments would cause hostility toward other FSW members and affiliates. I'm just this guy. I'm not an officer of FSW, I'm not a leader of FSW, I'm just a member and volunteer. My opinions are my own, and it is not only absurd to assert that my opinions are someone else's, or are generally accepted by others in this (or any other) group, but it is wrongheaded. Guilt by association and tarring with a broad brush and punishing many for the sins of one are things that militarists, nationalists, socialists, bullies, and politicians do. I'm against such behavior, and you should be, too.
Should everyone sign up? Every single one should take his own choice.
Given that each individual has to be responsible for his own choices, I don't much like it when someone says, "We ought to do " thus and such. What does "we" mean in that context? I asked a question. You read into my message an elitism about membership that was not there. I simply wanted to know what the guy meant by "we" in the context of his message.
I've been in a lot of groups with a lot of meetings. Invariably, someone uses the word "we" in its self-exclusive sense. "We ought to do thus and such," meaning "All y'all ought to get on with this very obvious idea I've had. Get back to me when it is done." I find that usage to be very frustrating, and I try to confront it whenever possible.
The SOI, as I understand it, can be signed by anyone, whether they have to move to Wyoming or not. As I understand it, the fulfillment of the requirement to establish voting residency is easiest for those who already live in Wyoming - though not everyone is allowed to vote.
Being antagonistic or easily offended are not endearing traits, from me, nor from Mr. Allen. If you review the thread, you'll notice that I made a few respectful comments and then he lashed out at me for not being a native of Thermopolis. It is certainly true that I'm not a Thermopo-hoplite. Perhaps I never shall be. Perhaps if I show up there, someone would choose to slash my tires or key my Jeep to show me just how welcoming they can be. I've no idea. That has not been my experience in the past, though.
Being submissive is not my way. If you think that I ought to let antagonistic comments slide, I regret very much that I cannot assist you in this manner. I am obstreperous because I see no reason not to voice objections. I am ornery because I see no reason not to stick to my principles. I am difficult because I am unwilling to let other people boss me around or bully me.
Everyone has choices to take. I've taken plenty.
Regards,
Jim