I'd like to contribute my personal perspectives on a range of topics...
1. Where to live and raise a family.
Worst - Gillette, Pinedale, Rawlins, Rock Springs and the other boom towns. They're overcrowded, dirty, noisy with oil patch workers forming their own subculture, and the long-time residents keeping to themselves. Mobile home parks full of noisy kids, domestic squabbles and muddy parking lots filled with glitzy new 4WD pickups, boats and snowmobiles. Every weekend is a 100-mile commute out of town to find some quiet in the ever-shrinking outdoors.
Bad - Cheyenne and SE Wyoming. Most Wyomingites don't even consider Cheyenne to be part of Wyoming... rather, just an extension of Colorado, with its teeming masses, growing traffic and population issues. Come Friday afternoon, interstate 25 is jammed with greenies (Coloradoans) trying to escape the crowds and pollution of Colorado. Unfortunately for Wyoming, a goodly portion of these weekend residents have bad manners and too much money.
Mediocre - Douglas, Sheridan, Buffalo, Ten Sleep, Casper - Overpriced real estate caused by out-of-staters flocking in and paying any price for a few acres on which to build their vinyl villages. Want to see something really gaudy? Drive highway 16 from Ten Sleep up to the mouth of the canyon. In what was a pristine setting a few years ago, you've now got these bozos building press-board mansions with 4 car garages. There's actually a golf course now in Ten Sleep. Good God.
Still Good - NE corner of Wyoming... Newcastle, Sundance, Hulett, etc.. Still undiscovered by California's golden hordes, you can find a bit of what Wyoming used to be like. Bring your own job though.
Best bet - NW/central Wyoming. Lander, Hudson, Riverton, Shoshone. Don't plan on getting rich.
Used to be good, now getting bad - Cody, Powell, Greybull and all of NW Wyoming. Again, out-of-staters trying to escape the mess they made of their own state. Real estate ballooned way out of sight, ricky-ticky developments and shoddy construction, all provided by greedy developers and bankers.
Where do I live? I ain't saying!
2. Wyoming's "Independent" spirit
Disappearing fast. 2006 saw the end of legal "open containers". Used to be, one could drive around and your passenger could crack a beer while you drove. Think about that for a moment... For 100 years, the 'state' treated you and your passenger as responsible citizens. Well, evidently the state of Wyoming now is so addicted to the federal dollars (highway funds) that this little freedom is now gone. Same thing with seat belts... legislators are pushing for draconian new laws that will penalize those of us who still believe that buckling up in our own cars is a matter of personal choice. It's difficult to say exactly why we are losing our spirit. My belief is that so many folks are moving here that have grown up with the "nanny state" mindset, that it is affecting the very core of what we thought we were.
It still isn't as bad as most of America has become, but we're definitely on the same road to Big Brotherism... especially in our paranoid, post-911 country, where we lost our guts and found that we really don't mind some surly government employee strip-searching our grandmother... as long as it "Keeps us safe."
Hope this helps!