If you think for a second that I'm a libertine, you're sorely mistaken.

I just believe in a lot of personal individual liberty, perhaps more so than the traditional American, but I think we should at least be given the
right to commit so-called victimless "crimes" without being arrested and whatnot. Of course I believe in responsibility, and all those behaviors should be done in moderation, if at all. One thing I do know, esp. since I've taken quite a few econ courses as well as read up a LOT on economics, mostly during college, is that prohibition very rarely works. If something is in high demand, people will find a way to get it, and if it's banned, a black market will ensue. That's the only possible route things can go. Obviously, I don't think we all should be drug-addicted prostitutes having all kinds of kinky sex all the time, but I do think the freedom to do those behaviors in moderation under the right circumstances, within reason, should at least be given. After all, you can't be responsible without having the freedom to make the right choices. Otherwise, it's totalitarianism or borders on it.
Of course I'm not totally against morality or any code of conduct. Far from it, I believe that all the usual things like rape, murder, stealing, lying (in general), fraud, abuse, vandalism, arson, etc. are wrong. Initiation of force, with few exceptions (e.g. spanking your very young child who may not be able to understand right from wrong just yet by explanation or logic), is obviously wrong. So I guess in that respect, I am in principle an anarchist. But realistically, I am a libertarian since I've come to realize that there's no way America will ever go anarchist. There's far too many statists in this country who want a piece of the tax pie. And there are of course far too many warmongers who won't give up the world police role of the U.S. easily. Maybe it could work in the U.S. on a community-wide scale, esp. in small towns, but the entire U.S. could never go anarchist as one nation and survive.
And as for anarcho-capitalism, while I understand the classic reasons for having that ideology, I can't say I support it, at least not if it were applied to the real world. To me, anarcho-capitalism seems like the "anti-government" version of a utopian worldview, sort of like how Marxists envision their own communitarian utopia. With no central authority to regulate big business or business at all, I'm not so sure things would go so smoothly. Yes, you've eliminated state force, but it seems to me like that could just as easily be replaced by business force. Yes, I know all about how great the free market is, but I'm a libertarian pragmatically precisely BECAUSE I see at least a minimal need to regulate the market and prevent certain abuses of power from taking place, esp. when it comes to things like asymmetric information, which seems to me would be much more prevalent in a totally anarcho-capitalist society. Anarcho-capitalism seems far too theoretical to me. Whenever you google or look up the topic, you'll see lots of postings on how it
could be done but very few actual real-world examples. Show me a truly anarcho-capitalist society in practice anywhere in history, esp. recently, and then maybe I'll start buying into it.
I'm the kind of libertarian who sees
both unrestricted big business and big government as anathema to a free and just society. Neither one should be off the hook. To me, the most important entity is the individual. His rights should be protected first and foremost. Big business can be just as detrimental to our freedoms and livelihoods at times as big government. I'm sure you've heard of the term "corporatism" and situations such as eminent domain abuse? I also don't particularly care for the seemingly blind anti-regulation viewpoint among many libertarians. They seem to automatically assume all regulation is bad, but it depends on WHAT the regulation is. Yes, I'd say that at perhaps 60-75% of the regulations on the books right now, esp. federally, are probably unnecessary and drag down the economy. However, there are a few here and there that could be necessary. And from my research, at least some of the financial crisis seems to stem from key deregulations of the financial sector, as well as bad gov't such as Fannie and Freddie on steroids (to put it mildly) and the Fed's tampering with interest rates.